Wael Kiwan

This is one of several documented past life memory cases occurring among the Druze community in Lebanon. As a young child in the 1990s, Wael Kiwan made specific statements about a previous life in the Lebanese capital Beirut, 70 kilometers from his mountain village. A deceased individual was eventually identified who corresponded to the name Wael gave for the previous personality, and who exactly matched eleven of the sixteen statements Wael made about his previous life and circumstances. As in many such cases, Wael stated that the previous life ended by violence, although he spoke of having been shot and did not refer to the previous personality’s actual cause of death, which was suicide by hanging.

Religious Communities in Lebanon

Lebanon is inhabited by Christian Maronites, Sunnis, Shiites and Druze. Druzes are the smallest community, numbering about 300,000, including the few Druze in Syria and Israel. In Lebanon rebirth cases are found almost exclusively among the Druze, although a scattered few have been among Christians and Muslims.

Investigations in Lebanon

Erlendur Haraldsson investigated 32 Druze cases in Lebanon during six field trips between 1998 and 2001, and published reports on four of them. Twenty-seven (84%) of the children spoke of having died by violence.

Ian Stevenson had investigated 77 Druze cases by the time he published volume III of his Cases of the Reincarnation Type (Lebanon and Turkey) and gives a lengthy account of six of them. About two-thirds speak of memories of a violent death.

Wael Kiwan’s Statements

The Kiwan family lived in the village of Batir, 70 km east of Beirut. Wael was born in 1988. At the age of four, he started to say that his name was Rabih, that he had been big, not small as now, and that he had other parents in Beirut and wanted to know where they were. Many of the statements were quite specific, such as ‘I had two homes, one to which I had to go to by airplane’.

Wael’s father would often go on business to Beirut. When he returned Wael would ask him if he had found his home, and was upset when his father said he had not. Wael also told him, ‘If you find it, don’t tell them that Rabih has died, because they will cry.’

Wael said that they had a balcony, from which he used to jump to the street. He said to his mother (as many of children in such cases do): ‘My [previous] mother is prettier than you.’

Wael said that ‘they’ shot him in the head, also that a group of people kicked and beat him until he did not feel anything (from which his parents inferred he had been killed).

The sixteen statements are as follows. (Eleven were verified as matching the life of the previous personality. One that did not match (cause of death) is marked *; the remaining four statements, marked ?, could not be verified and may or may not be true.)

  • My name was Rabih. I was big (not small).
  • I have parents. They are not here, they are in Beirut.
  • My house is in Beirut near the sea.
  • My house is near the house of Allah Wa Akbar (mosque).
  • There is a house with a red brick roof.
  • It was sunset and I saw people coming and they shot me.*
  • A group of people hit me and kicked me until I did not feel anything (?)
  • I was often on a boat out at sea.
  • I used to stand and steer the boat with a wheel. (?)
  • I would walk from my house to the sea.
  • My house is in Jal al Bahr.
  • I had two homes, one in Beirut, and one which I went to in an airplane.
  • We had a balcony.
  • I used to jump from the balcony to the street.
  • I used to throw an ‘iron’ to stop the boat. (Only reported by his aunt). (?)
  • My [previous] mother is prettier than you. (?)

Investigation and Verification

Wael’s parents said he made all these statements before they started to look for a deceased person who matched them. Before making inquiries in Beirut, they and his siblings sat with him and ran though a number of family names in the hope that he might recognize one of them. He rejected all of them until they mentioned the name Assaf, which he said was his previous family name. (Assaf is a rather common name in Lebanon and is carried by Druze, Christians and Muslims alike.)

Wael’s father then told a Druze friend in Beirut, Sami Zhairi, what Wael was saying about a previous life. Sami promised to ask around. He eventually identified a deceased boy named Rabih Assaf whose life seemed to fit Wael’s statements.

About a year after Wael made his first statements, his father took him to Beirut. Accompanied by Sami, they went to a house in the Jal al Bahr district that borders the sea, where Rabih Assaf had lived. Wael ran into the house ahead of the group, and into the apartment on the ground floor. Seeing a picture on the wall, he said, ‘This is my picture.’ It was a picture of Rabih Assaf.

His mother, Munira, was not at home. However, they met Raja Assaf, Rabih’s brother. Raja brought out a photo album and asked Wael to identify individuals in the pictures. According to Wael’s father he recognized Rabih’s father, sister and a paternal aunt.

Wael’s mother also recognized the photo of Rabih as a youth she had dreamed of a week before giving birth to Wael; like Rabih, the youth in the dream had a moustache and black hair and was wearing an open shirt; he was sweating and breathing with difficulty.

On the return journey, Wael told his father he felt relieved that he had found his previous home, and thereafter spoke little about his previous life. Now he does not talk spontaneously about it at all. There were further visits between the families and when Erlendur Haraldsson met Wael, when he was aged eleven, he still occasionally spoke with the previous family over the phone.

Haraldsson and his assistant first met him at his home. Wael returned from school as they were interviewing his parents. By that time he was forgetting his previous memories and he could not describe anything. (By the age of eleven memories of previous life have usually faded, although in some cases a few memories remain.) However, at a second meeting in January 2001, Wael told Haraldsson that he still remembered how he was shot. It is common that the imagery of the death scene lasts longer than other memories, although in this case it appears not to correspond with the facts.

Sami Zhairi had died three years prior to Haraldsson’s investigation, so could not be interviewed.

Correspondence with Rabih Assaf’s Life

Haraldsson and his assistant visited Rabih’s mother, Munira, at her home in Jal al Bahr, a ground floor apartment in a four-story house near the sea. She stated that Rabih died in South Pasadena, California in January 1988. He had moved to the US when he was 21 years old, and studied electrical engineering for two years. During the third year he wanted to return to Beirut, but was unable to do so because of the civil war. He lacked sufficient funds either to remain in California or to return to Beirut. In a state of depression he attempted suicide by swallowing pills, but was taken to a hospital and survived.

Munira did not learn about this until Rabih died of a second successful attempt, on January 9, 1988, by hanging himself in the garage. Abboud Assaf, the relative with whom he was staying, had kept the news of the first attempt from her, and had tried in vain to prevent him making a second attempt. This was validated in a telephone interview Haraldsson carried out with Abboud Assaf.

Wael never said that he had killed himself. He did say that ‘they’ had shot him. He also said that a group of people kicked him and hit him until he did not feel anything (neither Munira nor Abboud Assaf in California were aware of any such incident).

When Wael first visited Munira’s home, he asked about the house with a red roof. A house with a red roof had stood behind their building but had been torn down by the time of Wael’s first visit. Rabih had grown up seeing it from their apartment. This, more than anything else, made her believe Wael was Rabih reborn.

Munira’s apartment is on the ground floor and has a balcony. It is easy to jump from the balcony to the street, as Rabih had often done, according to his mother. Wael had mentioned jumping from a balcony to the street before meeting the Assaf family or seeing the house.

Wael repeatedly mentioned a boat. Some relatives and neighbors kept boats in a small harbor at the end of the street. Most of them were rowing boats, but Rabih might sometimes have had a ride on a boat with a steering wheel.

Wael had said he lived near a mosque. An old mosque is situated approximately 100 meters from Rabih’s house on the same street as the harbor. It is the only mosque in the Jal al Bahr area.

The statement that Rabih had two homes, one of which you had to go to with an airplane, fits the fact that Rabih had also lived in the US.

Rabih died in the US and was reborn in Lebanon. The Druze believe that they are always reborn as Druze, and Rabih’s reincarnation as Wael fits this expectation. However, in most cases the death and the rebirth takes place in the same country. Wael’s case is an exception.

Erlendur Haraldsson

Sources

Erlendur Haraldsson and Majd Abu-Izzeddin (2004). Three randomly selected Lebanese cases of children who claim memories of a previous life. Journal of the Society for Psychical Research 86, 65-85.

Erlendur Haraldsson and James G Matlock (2017). I Saw a Light and Came Here: Children´s Experiences of Reincarnation. White Crow Books.